Friday, August 7, 2026

Looking Forward

Do you ever experience times when the days topple, one upon another, and the month is over? We had one such month in July. Mostly all good except for that unfortunate 10 days when I had to take Flagyl three times a day. It was hard to keep the timing straight, so I would set out three pills in the morning and hope I saw them enough times to take it. It was oh happy days, when this happened.

I've finally gotten my cardiac clearance to go off my blood thinner for three days before the dreaded colonoscopy appointment on, get this, our 53rd wedding anniversary!! Every day is a celebration around here, so I'm really just being silly! Hopefully, soon, we can put this whole unpleasant experience behind us and look forward once again. 

So, let's talk potatoes! I know what you are thinking, they had a bonanza crop of potatoes and if so, your thoughts would be misguided because here's the haul.

And, yet, I was pleased as punch. Haha, that reminds me of our wedding reception; cake and punch was on the menu. Does anyone still do that sort of thing? I think not! Anyway, as a first experiment, while in a sunny spot, the ground is hard, so we will try again in more forgiving soil. Tasty as well which is not always a guarantee is it? 

Look at this sweet pin my friend Robin got me!! Out of the blue she gifted it to me and the focus ring even moves! (my trusty camera bag)

A shout out to our daughter-in-law Michelle who gifted this t-shirt to Bruce. Remember how I told you we were decked out for 4th of July? I took this just before we left the house and I need not remind you of what happened next!

Is it any wonder I have held fast to this beautiful man? (both inside and out)

We made a second trip to Freddy's sunflower patch, if you can call it that because it is so big, but anyway, I got a kick out of this picture when I got around to looking at them. Do you see what I see?

It did my heart good to see that even Freddy's tomatoes have early blight. Not that I would wish that on anyone, but he's a pro, so if it happens to him, why shouldn't it happen to me?

What so fascinated me having the sunflowers in the house, 
basically everywhere that I could find a spot, 
was how much pollen dropped to the surface below. I cannot really remember that from any that I have purchased in the past, but then again, you know my memory. 

Have you read Theo of Golden yet? If not, get your hands on a copy and get to it because it is one of the most beautiful books you will ever read which I know sounds crazy, but it really is. Anyway, the curious Gail has done a little reading up on this gentleman author and in an interview he said that "his memory was like Teflon, nothing sticks." That would be me! Here's a link to a short visit with the author. 

Friends we have had some storms of late. 
Check out the Japanese Maple in early August. Finally it turned partly green but just you wait, before we know it, the color will be shockingly beautiful. Generally the rainstorms happen overnight, or if in the daylight hours, mild rain. Not so the last few weeks. 

One would think the drought would soon be a thing of the past.

Hydrangeas have been slow to show up but when they do, by golly, they are beautiful!
Adding to my sunflower story, which I know I keep going on about, but it has been one of the highlights of summer, so much so I was caught in a torrential downpour because my curiosity got the best of me. I felt the early drops but kept going to the riverbank when those few drops became, well, how many raindrops fall in a torrential storm anyway? Any ideas?
Actually it's kind of fun getting soaked.  The Boy Scout in the family came to my rescue with the huge umbrella he keeps in the car. :) It should be noted that I am writing this two weeks or so after that visit and the sunflowers are done for the year, in part because of so much rain. Proving you've got to get anything wonderful while you can!

Once it stopped we drove down Harshaw Road a bit because no summer is complete with seeing these beauties in a yard filled with plenty more flowers. It's really just a joy.
Oftentimes it is hard to convey size in a photograph so just believe me when I tell you the blooms are HUGE!

Well what have we here?
After a slow start, hummingbirds have been coming like nobodies business. While we love having them on the feeder, it's pretty darn wonderful seeing them going after the flowers planted just for them. 
Should you be wondering about the hardware cloth here's the scoop. We are trying everything to thwart a roaming cat from going after our birdies! To date, the cat is winning.

Can you even believe the color of the center plant? Would you call it fuchsia? SO vibrant. 
It is exciting seeing it thrive in what was once a very messy bed.

Going back a few weeks let's talk a little about VBS. Here is our new pastor, Evan, looking all giddy about being in Murphy! That would be David leading the older kids back for the closing assembly. He taught school forever and knows what he is doing!
David also, with a little help from his friends, created this bubble arch for the kids to come into the fellowship hall.
It so impresses me that the children are fed before things get going. Volunteers donate both the food and their time, including this sweet couple,
and I'm pretty sure you recognize these folks below, one of whom cooked and provided the food, and the other was the kitchen help.
Our friend Kerry, another former school teacher, was the puppet and did a marvelous job.
Each year that I have helped I look forward to what Liz, another former school teacher, is going to do with her science lessons. This one was so fun to watch the kids reaction, and mine too, for that matter.
Watching the beads tumble out of the container after the slightest touch to start them was so much fun for the children who got to do it themselves. I can't explain the golf ball experiment very well, but it had something to do with Isaac Newton. 

Crafts, stories, and of course the playground.
Much to everyone's surprise, no rain fell on those nights. A wonderful time was had by all.

Here we are..we've made it to the present! When your car won't start, well, in our case, you have to get a new battery. Turns out, after having had to be jumped twice, we discovered it was the original battery.
During the time we had no power to the car, if that makes sense, the tire sensors went out so that is where Mr. Peck is as I type, getting that fixed. 

While I still have much to say, if I keep you tied to this, there will be no time for reading the above acclaimed novel! 
These are dahlias, both pink and yellow in the background. I, little ol' me, started them from seeds!!! 

As much as I have gone on about it, one might think that I was the first to plant seeds wouldn't one? I know it seems crazy, but boy oh boy has it been fun!! 

May your weekend have more fun than you can stand and may you look forward most of the time!!

your friend,

Gail 

Friday, July 31, 2026

Asheville Part Two and More

We have been home for weeks, but still I want to get some of this goodness and a small bit of not so good,  down in my little space on the world wide web. Think about that...world wide! It's really so remarkable isn't it? We take it for granted now, just as we do, say electricity, but gosh we have lots to be grateful for! I was telling Matt the other day, that I rarely look at the statistics for my blog  powered by Google, that are available. I happened to recently check and what I see are posts that have been read in the last week. Usually a list of about eight or so. Because my posts go back to 2007, and cover such a range of topics people, whoever they are, still read some old ones. 

With that in mind, I saw that one post had been read 1,700 times in one week. Puzzled about what could generate such interest, I clicked on a post from June 29, 2016 which should it interest you can be read through this link.  The subject? The Pulse nightclub shooting. It must be because it is the 10 year anniversary? While that interested me, it also included the fact that I was just returning from California after being there to help Carol post Whipple surgery and if you don't know what that is, pray that you never have any reason to learn about it!! 

My blog has been helpful to me in keeping track of my various health challenges as well, something I have written about more often than I would have liked!! One memory from another time I suffered from a colitis attack was the drug that is prescribed for that, Flagyl. I was reminded how HORRIBLE the taste of the pill was, so much so we did everything we could to get me through 10 days of it, including putting it in applesauce for one thing. So, when the emergency room doctor said he was prescribing that, I was crestfallen. Well friends, I don't know what has changed but I had not the slightest problem taking it three times a day! I don't know what has changed, but I'm all for it!! Of course, I'd rather never have to take it again, but with my history, it is probably wise to never say never!

So, all that aside, let's get back to the Biltmore!

Good grief it was hot as it has been here the last few days. I am more than ready for some cooler weather! 

Our appointed time to enter the house came and from the very first glimpse I knew I was going to love it all!! The Winter Garden room greeted us and what a lovely space it is.

During a dark and cold winter I imagine this room was a breath of fresh air! 

So many rooms, all beautiful or interesting, so I will only show a few. It took us a long time to go through the rooms we saw out of the 250, can you imagine how long it would take to go through all 775 of the rooms at Buckingham Palace??? Yup, you read that right!

I think one of the things, of countless, that is so interesting, is how every surface is decorative. No plain walls, or floors. Ornate light fixtures such as this one that is three stories and hangs beside the grand staircase.  I especially loved how the windows followed the line of the staircase. 
Try as I migh, I could only include two of the tree levels ot the chandelier. Can you imagine how heavy that is???

Fireplaces??? They needed them back then! 

The room is so large that there are two identical fireplaces flanked by tapestries from the 1500s.

We would have been lost without the audio tour! Not just how to get around, but we learned quite a bit.

The life-sized paintings at the end of the room are of the architect and Fredrick Law Olmsted who designed the landscaping and so much more. 

A bowling alley, several kitchens, an exercise room complete with all manner of equipment that is still used today, just somewhat updated.  The swimming pool!! Fantastic. Let's put it this way, I cannot think of a thing that was not fantastic aside from it being hot as blue blazes! I so wanted to jump in the fountain!

The following day we went to the North Carolina Arboretum that sits adjacent to an entry to the Blue Ridge Parkway. Who does not like a garden, right? Their bonsai collection is remarkable.

The stone walls are marvelous, as were the plantings in spite of the summer heat, or maybe because of it?

It's a lovely place to roam, probably in any season.
One would think that one would see plenty of birds but for this enthusiast that was not the case aside from this little Song Sparrow. 
Watching a bonsai being trimmed was fascinating.
Aren't these just charming?
Another day we went to the Southern Highland Craft Guild Folk Art Center located on the Blue Ridge Parkway. Walking in the first space I saw this woman sewing, so naturally I had to have a chat. What an interesting woman, who is not only is she wildly accomplished herself, she also judges quilts at places like the National Quilt Museum, the very one we visited in Paducah, KY. Really, the holy grail for quilters!
Her work is impeccable! Plus she gave me some helpful tips which I hope to incorporate soon. Lots of quilts there, 
as well as all manner of very high level crafts, including amazing furniture and so much more.
The above items are part of their permanent collection but most things were for sale; I bought a clay clock with birds on it. Super cute and what could be better, combining two of my favorite things? Were you aware of my love of timepieces? For years and years I had a collection of watches that I rotated like other people do jewelry. 

We drove a bit on the BRP until we came to a wonderful overlook.
And then I think we went back to the condo to watch a World Cup match. 

Later on Bruce and I walked across the street from the condo, discovering a mid-week market.
Some delicious looking pastries at one booth.
The afternoon was still crazy hot so we went into the brewery for a nice cold drink! Lots of folks watching yet another match on the big screen.
While some folks watched a little screen.
The next night we had a meet up with John and Laura who had just come to their condo after we moved to a hotel in downtown. 
Tom explaining something or other, charming all with his British accent.

Following dinner we walked back to the hotel, admiring some of the buildings and art.
Following our return to Murphy we happened upon a video story about how Asheville had somewhat of a boom/bust economy in the past and when it was booming beautiful buildings were the result.
We learned that no new public buildings were built for 50 years as they paid off their debt! We also learned about how the presence of the Biltmore shaped the history and future of Asheville. 
West Asheville is full of street art, however, the above is the only thing I saw downtown, admittedly a limited sample size as we did not go far on foot because it was so darn hot!! 

The next morning the London lads flew to Orlando to spend the next week at our place, visiting family in town, Tom's brother and his wife flew in from Manchester, UK, and a glorious time was had by all. The baby car, AKA my MINI Cooper parked in Orlando, had quite the workout during their stay!

We stopped for breakfast at this cafe with an amazing blue banquette. 
Our drive home took us through Sylva, a town all dressed up for America 250.
Saturday morning, July 4, we got situated after being gone for nearly a week, getting all of our chores done in time to walk to town, me in a red striped top, red skort and blue Keds, and Bruce wearing his patriotic pickleball shirt. Walking into town, heading towards the new bandstand where the festivities were to begin, it was then that everything went to hell in a hand basket. 

All of a sudden, my abdomen began hurting and I needed to find a restroom. Handing Bruce my camera bag, that contained my phone btw, I went into Fairy Cross, our local wine hangout. I was a complete mess, hurting like crazy, covered with sweat and pretty much frantic. I don't really know how long it was before I heard Bruce's voice outside the door. I stumbled to the door and went just outside the door. The patrons took one look at me and began asking me, " are you okay?"  No, I am not. The good news is there was a tourist in town from Florida who was an EMT. She took control, seeing my sad state of affairs, yelling out, someone call an ambulance, I can't find her pulse! Good grief!! 

Thanks be to God, an ambulance was already standing nearby due to the fireworks etc. so, in not time at all,  Jacob was moving furniture out of the way, your friend was put on the stretcher and before we even got moving the excellent Murphy EMT started an IV on his first try, a big deal  because the older I get, the harder it is to find my veins. That's all for the messy details, but I will tell you that when we returned to Fairy Cross, after a few weeks absence, I had a bit of PTSD, as did Jacob (he runs the place), saying to me, "don't go trying to die on me again!" 

I will do my best!!

As is always the case, multiple people helped us, brought flowers and Bruce lived up to the nickname given to him by my Mom, "a prince among men", doing what he could to hold up the fort as I recovered for days. I am still undergoing some tests, but more than twenty years ago I had a similar episode of Ischemic Colitis, so I'm sure that is what this will prove to be. 
I really missed my camera, but eventually I got to put it to use, first when my honey took me to see Freddy's huge stand of sunflowers.
He encouraged me to take all that I wanted and I obliged! 

Potato crop is in, hundreds of photos taken for VBS, new coffee shop Bruce has been dying to see opened and lots more.

Next post maybe I can get to the present? I'll do my best!

Oh and I am feeling much better.

your friend,

Gail

Looking Forward