Tuesday, June 23, 2026

Bees, Bees, and a Wedding Celebration Too

Lightening bugs!! We have not yet talked about lightening bugs this season!! What is there to say, you ask? Watching a lightening bug floating around in front, or just out of reach is magical is what I have to say. A joy to behold is another. I sure hope you have the opportunity to watch them sometime in your lifetime because it really is lovely.

Speaking of bugs, it has been bee season in these parts. Because I now have so many flowers, bees have taken notice, although I was saying to Bruce that they seem to be ignoring the clover in the lawn which is not what we expected. Remember how we practiced "no mow May" when we first got here and Mr. Vespasian thought we didn't have a mower. For those new to this blog, Mr. V is the previous owner who drove by with frequency in our first year in the house on Campbell Street. I will tell you who loves clover and that is the bunnies when they show up. They are also fond of my plants that are relegated to the "not good enough" to display area.

For the record though, I do have more flowers to display than ever before in my lifetime. How crazy is that? Are you interested in what's in bloom? I hope so because here is a list of current beauties.

  • The David Austin roses have had their second flush of flowers, not tons, but they seem to be established which is the first step in having lots of blooms.
  • Autumn Sage
  • Yellow petunias
  • Double lavender petunias
  • Deep purple petunias
  • Orange daylilies
  • Impatiens
  • Salmon-colored verbena
  • Zinnias ,both ones that I purchased and ones that I started from seed. You can well imagine which are my favorite.
  • Geraniums
  • Lavender
  • Purple salvia
  • Deep pink dianthus
  • Scarlet bee balm
  • Yellow lantana
  • Hydrangea
  • Rose of Sharon
  • A few I cannot remember! 
  • Duh....the sunflower I grew from seed opened on the first day of summer!!
Unreal, right? I have been busy taking photos of said flowers with bees in action. We might just as well start with the Rose of Sharon tree that is laden with buds and bees.

Here's the problem though. The tree is ancient and we knew it was not going to last much longer in spite of the fact that it has hundreds of buds ready to delight both myself and the bees. Bruce had shored it up with a stick,

A heavy overnight rain did the smaller branch in and Bruce had to cut it up and throw the flowers away. It was painful to watch, and even more painful for Bruce to have to saw it up using a limb saw!

More shoring and hopefully it will last until the remaining blooms have blossomed. :( 

There will be quite the void left. 

The color is just so beautiful. We have a light pink one as well as a medium pink bush about 8' tall that should last for some time. Let's hope so because the annual show has been highly anticipated by this blogger.

In a similar color family, this is Autumn Sage, a plant that I had never heard of but is doing well on the front porch. Cute, isn't it?

Friends did you see this in the evening sky last week?

Of course there is the crescent moon, Venus, and way below is another celestial body that I cannot remember, but I read about them aligning, and hoped I could see it for myself. Lots of people are keen on a full moon and there's nothing wrong with that, but for me, a crescent moon looks pretty awesome. 

Back to the bees... Kew Garden rose.

This beauty is one of the ones I cannot remember the name of, but I've got two to show. 

Do you see what I see? Probably not because not only am I seeing it bigger as I type on my computer, but I saw it in person! The damage has been done by an evil bug in the center of the bloom and that is a Japanese beetle that once I saw it, I removed it asap. A day or so later, this pretty one was  being visited by a bee,

and I had high hopes, but darn if a beetle didn't work it's way inside the bud in the next day or two. Boo hiss!

Here's one of the ones I cannot remember the name of.

Super fun, right? I have not photographed the geraniums yet, but after buying them half price, which most everything I buy is, they are just getting settled and multiple blooms are in my future!

Here is the last I will say about bees and that is we just discovered that carpenter bees have found our outdoor stairs off of the back porch.

Rather than pollen that would be sawdust you are seeing!! We bought one of those bee traps at the farmer's market on Saturday, so here's hoping that we can diminish the damage. Two round holes have already been drilled by this bee. 

Bruce worked until late Friday afternoon as did about six other guys and they finished the parsonage with a sense of the satisfaction of a job well done. A quick shower, and we were off to the Hearn's for the rehearsal dinner for the second wedding of the summer. The girl with the pretty smile is the bride, Emma, whose sister was married a month earlier.

Julie did another beautiful job of making sure everything was lovely. I was very envious of the vegetable garden down below.

I have learned a lot about a vegetable garden this season, but Harry has learned even more in a lifetime of growing plants of all kinds. Full sun and good soil are key. I think my soil is pretty good, but my sun is marginal at best. Not going to keep me from trying though! 

Eddie, Julie and Jamie's dad ,being helped up to his little house on the property.

Their home and property were fantastic for the first wedding as was the second one at the Crown, a restaurant in nearby Brasstown, that overlooks the Folk School property. The artistry in everything was so special.

Julie takes ordinary things and turns them into something that is extraordinary.

There was plenty of rain during the week leading up to the wedding, but thankfully it was nowhere to be found on Saturday afternoon.

Emma and Dan live outside of Detroit as does his family who are from Macedonia, an ancient country with a complicated history, but one thing you may remember is it was swallowed up by Yugoslavia at one time and gained independence in 1991. I did not know much about all this before I began writing,  but I'm thinking that Daniel's family probably emigrated during the war for independence. Don't quote me on that! I do know that there is a good deal of Macedonians in Michigan, so there's that.

His mother brought some of their customs to the wedding including these crowns and the ropes. Now I know why Harry had to excuse himself for a while Friday evening as he prepared for the ceremony.

Harry included all elements, as well as the bread, all of which symbolizes something.

His mother was so excited it was a joy to watch her. The little girl was pretty excited to.

What a joyful occasion. it was. I thought I had the video part sorted out but I think I was wrong. But you get the jist.

Dancing with handkerchiefs was a thing, as was a roasted pig. Who knew that having never seen a roasted pig before, that we would see two this summer? It is one more Macedonian tradition.
Then again, we have not attended two weddings in a month before, so that could sure be part of it. Eddie, the girl's grandfather is getting up in years and I believe they wanted to make sure that he was part of the celebration. Julie's twin, Jamie and the mother of the brides, along with their dad. 
Both of us were horrified to learn that on the Sunday, following the wedding, Eddie had a fall and had to be hospitalized for a few days. We were so worried ,but he has returned to his little house for now, so we will breathe a little easier until his upcoming 87th birthday.

I hope you are still with me because on Sunday afternoon we returned to the scene of the baptism to gather rocks.
Not that big of rocks, of course,  but ones to use as a border to our new little flower spot. The clear, crisp water was delightful on a warm summer (!!!) afternoon. I will admit to having never paid much attention to the first day of summer before we came here, because it already felt like summer for months. Anyway, wearing my water shoes I cooled off.
The amount of rocks in a mountain river bed is innumerable. We put them out like this. 
And I will close with the happy couple standing in the water, happy as clams. Oh wait, there are not clams in a river are there? Maybe.

Your friend,

Gail 

Wednesday, June 17, 2026

Good Folks, Good Times

The proverbial questions....where do I start counting our blessings? 

How about my new flower bed?

So far it is performing beyond my wildest expectations, but then again, can that be true? Actually I had no expectations but I did have hope that the plants would work well together and hopefully compliment each other at the same time. The blooms on the pink hydrangea are huge below with the one above just coming into it's own. I await the zinnia blooms, but holy cow, are the plants getting tall and to think that I started them with seeds makes my heart swell with happiness.

Seriously, the idea that a tiny seed holds such potential sounds preposterous, yet by golly, it is true as I have discovered for myself.

A cabbage from the garden,

was used in this quick dish because I did not have time for anything more elaborate. Such as coleslaw!

A few days later I did make coleslaw to go along with the pulled pork we brought home from the cook out at the Libers.

It was very unfortunate that while the drive there is beyond beautiful( I still can't believe we get to see this view regularly),

there was the little matter of getting the start time wrong on my part. Yes indeed, I remarked to Bruce on our way that I was surprised we did not see anyone we knew on the drive and that would be because the gathering began at one o'clock rather than 2:30 as I told Bruce! In my defense, I called and texted earlier with no answer so I will take most of the blame. Sadly, in the back seat, the salad that D'Anna requested for David, was far too late to be eaten by the crowd. I will say it was pretty what with cucumbers, tomatoes, red onion and my very own parsley. Topped with some red wine vinegar and a few splashes of olive oil.

It won't be too much longer when I can make the same salad with the tomatoes in the garden,as well as the cucumbers which are beginning to flower. Since I wrote this earlier today, I did eat my very first tomato and it was delicious.

Reading every day about some gardening practice or another, I read where should you leave the broccoli stalk in the ground and it will produce more and sure enough, that has turned out to be true. 

We shall see what they taste like soon. Not everything I have read has turned out to be true for me such as putting my peony buds in the refrigerator to open at a later date. I finally looked at them this week and it was a sad day for me. While oftentimes I've shared not so pretty things, I just could not bring myself to do so in this instance.

Our pickleball friend, Lori, gave us a box of small plants including more hostas and some grasses. With the last of my Mother's Day Lowe's gift card, I bought a few other discounted plants, and between the two of us, we cleared out a bed, 

which frankly was a lot of work because to the right of Bruce you will see landscape border stones piled up, all of which were buried in this bed! I began the work, picking up a dozen or so with the shovel and then Bruce got into the act which was not unwelcome, I will say that much! On Bruce's left are stones we found in said bed, as well as about a hundred bulbs which produced plants but no flowers. It's going to be interesting to see what the remaining ones do next. 

Which brings me to an exciting happening and that is the day lilies that Tammy gave me two years ago are blooming! Last year there were a few blooms but this year every plant is raring to go!

Isn't the color just gorgeous? 

Gorgeous would not be the adjective to describe what I discovered in the huge pile of magnolia pods.  Otherworldly comes to mind.

I will keep you posted on what happens next!

Another happy thing that is going on is my roses seem to be getting established in their new environment and are producing more this year; some more than others but that is to be expected as they were planted a year apart. Matthew reminded me to fertilize and that seems to be working magic.

Thursday was fantastic for several reasons, beginning with the ribbon cutting for the downtown improvements that Laura was so involved in. The town is decked out for America 250.

Laura gave a fantastic speech about third places and if you don't know what that means, I get it because I didn't either before she explained it to me. If that sort of thing intrigues you, click on this link for more info. Before her speech Braden Rumfelt sang the national anthem a cappella. 

And here is Ms Laura with her beaming smile, doing the official ribbon cutting. 

The truth is that the new road paving is still underway, but the project that has been going of for nearly two years now is nearing the end, and we are all the better for it!

Meanwhile, I heard from our new neighbor, Jessie, that she was already at the park for the free concert so we got our folding chairs and carried them the few blocks to meet her at the park where I walk beside the river.  What a lively young woman she is and when I say young what I mean is that she is but a few years older than our son Matthew who is turning 50 on July 5! 

The sun was hot as blue blazes as we watched the hometown boy sing his heart out with his band which includes his twin brother on the guitar and his best friend singing with him on this song. 

Because we have been here awhile now we forget how easy doing things is compared to what we were accustomed to. We may not have loads of opportunities for some things, but what we do have is done without difficulty.

Murphy is mighty proud of this young man for making top five on American Idol. What happens next for him is still being figured out. One thing to note is he played baseball for years in this same park!

The Murphy master gardeners have been doing some improvements on the river walk and the perennials are coming along nicely, including this plant appropriately called Bee Balm.

I bought red one for here that is beginning to bloom so I will show you that soon. Much to my dismay the Echinacea seeds I planted did nothing, but the real gardeners know what they are doing.

Sunday was very special indeed. 

I said to Bruce can you even imagine we are witnessing this? One of the things I love so much about living here is that I so often have new experiences. Sure everyone does that, say, while traveling to a new country but we are doing it close to home. So am I killing you with suspense yet? Haha! 

A river baptism friends. Yup. Methodists are not known for this, but the young boy asked if Wil would do the baptism at the Lochaby place along the Hiwassee River before they move to Waynesville. Freddy, who is on the board of trustees with Bruce, has been a member of the church all of his 78 years. He cannot remember a time without a garden and he keeps it up with a little help from a neighbor. Look how big it is! There are two rows the length of the garden planted in sunflowers and Freddy's sister who was visiting said to come and cut them when they begin blooming. How can I turn down that invitation?

The setting was so beautiful and is but a little over two miles from our home. When we don't get out of town I sometimes forget how stunning the landscape can be, especially at this time of year. 

The water is super cold but little Jack did a good job hiding it. 
Aside from Wil, everyone is a Murphy local. I won't get into it but last evening we visited with two locals and they talked about how people think that they are hillbillies and make fun of them. I'm pretty sure that is why we are friends with locals because we think they have great value. Some worry that Murphy is growing and I rarely tell them how much our hometown grew from when we were children. It's horrifying to see what has happened to Orlando but those who did not know it like we did think it is just great. I suspect it happens all over the world, people being protective of their hometowns. 

Just when you think I have it all together, this past week I had an unwelcome reminder that I DO NOT. First off, I learned from the pharmacy that I had no medication insurance and to shorten this story to its' essence, in January I paid twice for Bruce and none for me. It took multiple phone calls to sort out what happened. I knew that I had paid it and even wrote on the little payment book the date, but with the last digit of our policy one number different, somehow I made the mistake. They told me sorry, try again at the end of the year. So there's that. 

This morning I stumbled on a curb and although I landed on both hands and knees (!!!) on the concrete sidewalk, thankfully, the only real problem is my right knee is hurting like a son of a gun. When I finish this I plan on icing it for the second time this afternoon.  Good grief! That said it could have been so much worse, so for that I am grateful. 

Bruce has been painting and supervising at the parsonage since 9AM where they are painting much of the interior before the new pastor arrives in two weeks time. He put together a good sized crew of volunteers so hopefully a few days will be sufficient. 

And with that news, I think I will put that knee up and on ice!!

your friend,

Gail