Meet Jamie, Eddie and Julie all of whom had something to mourn and something to celebrate and we had the privilege of joining them in a beautiful setting that is the home of Julie and Harry. A father and his two girls who cherish him.
This is the view from the parking area that leads one into a magical place.It is hard to describe their home because it is like no other, filled even outdoors with artistic flair. For these occasions, Julie turned it into a sanctuary fit for both a celebration of life and a wedding. We have been here before in other seasons but never in spring and did it ever shine with the light filtering in through the fresh leaves as Julie gave a eulogy for her mother.That evening the air carried a chill which would give way to more warmth as the days progressed. Friends and family, along with the Brasstown community, gathered to celebrate her life.Demonstrating how small our community is, there is a man and woman standing behind the seated guests who I knew I recognized but could not place them until she reminded me that I buy plants from them at the farmers market. I don't know about you, but when I see someone out of context I often struggle to place them, however, I should remember them because to date the plants I have purchased from them have thrived beyond my expectations. Let's take a quick moment to see how my garden grows, shall we?The lettuce has gone haywire while the broccoli are doing great. Behind the lettuce you are seeing small pepper plants I started from peppers from the fridge, shishito peppers, beans, okra, marigolds, spinach and broccoli on this end of the garden. Cabbage, nasturtium, sunflowers, several varieties of tomatoes and herbs. Who knew those cabbage plants would get so huge? It has been fun to see them begin to form heads amongst those giant leaves! Since Bruce put the cages up, little birdies are landing on the one supporting the sunflowers allowing them to nibble. As well, for the first time ever we had the sad misfortune to discover that a creature, as yet to be determined, ate some of the hosta plants to the ground!! Many friends have that same trouble, but they live in the woods! Say it ain't so!Please forgive the garden insert there; back to the matter at hand!
The family sat front row, including this little cutie that loved having her photograph made.
Both Julie and her niece, along with some friends, spoke before Harry (Julie's husband) took back the microphone and asked folks to tie a string around their neighbor's wrists to remind them of loved ones that they want to keep close to their heart.This was followed by a huge potluck dinner that most everyone contributed to.Once the service portion was done, tables were assembled and filled the area.A fire was lit for both ambiance and to ward off that chill I mentioned.So that was the remembrance evening for Nancy. Perhaps you remember when Bruce and John built a ramp in the snow that I described in this post? That was for Nancy.Friday evening, on the other hand, was for celebrating with a wedding rehearsal dinner for this couple who came down from Michigan to celebrate with the family.
The kids preferred pizza over the catered Caribbean meal. It was that night that I found some kindred spirits.It is so rare that I see anyone with a proper camera so I thoroughly enjoyed meeting them. He is the brother of the groom.There were glam parts and there were rustic parts, both of which are no surprise when two artists put on a wedding. Because Eddie lives in his own house on the property, Julie sits with him watching Mash most mornings during which time they made this garland. Although he is doing as well as can be expected, there is no getting around the fact that he's lost the love of his life after 65 years of marriage, give or take a year.A clearing in the woods, complete with a wedding arch made by John and Harry, was the spot for the ceremony. Meanwhile guests were mingling...as well as singing.All of the folks above are involved with the Campbell Folk School and the man pictured in front is the owner of a popular restaurant in town named The Crown. Bruce just had a birthday yesterday and Matt gave him a gift card to there, so we will be enjoying that in the near future. While talking with him, it turns out he grew up just up the street from our home!I cannot imagine what the Michigan family was thinking about the charming wedding festivities, but I have a suspicion they thought it was a special and unique time.
Both Julie and Harry are potters and there was an abundance of their creations put to use, including the tea light holders that were meant to be taken home by the guests.Flowers from a local flower farm were everywhere. Stick with me folks because the wedding day has arrived! In fact, after we see the mother of the groom, and maybe her sister, we will head to that special place in the woods.Let the bubbles lead the way...Here comes the groom and Mom.I did not envy her in her heels!Once the groomsmen arrived at the altar they unrolled a burlap runner for the bride who looked lovely on the arm of her mother, Jamie.
I was not in a great position to take photos, so I relied on the kindness of strangers.Following a delicious meal that included a roasted pig (a first for me ever seeing),mostly it was the ladies, and isn't that always the way, who hit the dance floor!The cake ceremony was simple and beautiful and it was then that I realized the bride looked so much like Taylor Swift, a fact that apparently she is not fond of hearing. Seriously though!Next up her sister is getting married here in June!Are you tired yet?
We were most definitely tired, so much so that while yesterday was Bruce's 73rd birthday, it was completely low key with an early bedtime. Did I say he turned 73? And I'm not far behind? I will close with this sweet photo of Eddie and Bruce. Julie asked if I would take photos and did I ever love that question.We were so thrilled to be included in a remembrance and a celebration.
your friend,
Gail