Tuesday, May 19, 2026

Remebrance and Celebration

Meet Jamie, Eddie and Julie all of whom had something to mourn and something to celebrate and we had the privilege of joining them in a beautiful setting that is the home of Julie and Harry. A father and his two girls who cherish him.

 This is the view from the parking area that leads one into a magical place.

It is hard to describe their home because it is like no other, filled even outdoors with artistic flair. For these occasions,  Julie turned it into a sanctuary fit for both a celebration of life and a wedding. We have been here before in other seasons but never in spring and did it ever shine with the light filtering in through the fresh leaves as Julie gave a eulogy for her mother.

That evening the air carried a chill which would give way to more warmth as the days progressed. Friends and family, along with the Brasstown community, gathered to celebrate her life.

Demonstrating how small our community is, there is a man and woman standing behind the seated guests who I knew I recognized but could not place them until she reminded me that I buy plants from them at the farmers market. I don't know about you, but when I see someone out of context I often struggle to place them, however, I should remember them because to date the plants I have purchased from them have thrived beyond my expectations. Let's take a quick moment to see how my garden grows, shall we?

The lettuce has gone haywire while the broccoli are doing great. Behind the lettuce you are seeing small pepper plants I started from peppers from the fridge, shishito peppers, beans, okra, marigolds, spinach and broccoli on this end of the garden. 

Cabbage, nasturtium, sunflowers, several varieties of tomatoes and herbs. Who knew those cabbage plants would get so huge? It has been fun to see them begin to form heads amongst those giant leaves! Since Bruce put the cages up, little birdies are landing on the one supporting the sunflowers allowing them to nibble. As well, for the first time ever we had the sad misfortune to discover that a creature, as yet to be determined, ate some of the hosta plants to the ground!! Many friends have that same trouble, but they live in the woods! Say it ain't so!

Please forgive the garden insert there; back to the matter at hand! 

The family sat front row, including this little cutie that loved having her photograph made.

Both Julie and her niece, along with some friends, spoke before Harry (Julie's husband) took back the microphone and asked folks to tie a string around their neighbor's wrists to remind them of loved ones that they want to keep close to their heart.

This was followed by a huge potluck dinner that most everyone contributed to.

Once the service portion was done, tables were assembled and filled the area.

A fire was lit for both ambiance and to ward off that chill I mentioned.

So that was the remembrance evening for Nancy. Perhaps you remember when Bruce and John built a ramp in the snow that I described in this post? That was for Nancy.

Friday evening, on the other hand, was for celebrating with a wedding rehearsal dinner for this couple who came down from Michigan to celebrate with the family.

The kids preferred pizza over the catered Caribbean meal. 

It was that night that I found some kindred spirits.

It is so rare that I see anyone with a proper camera so I thoroughly enjoyed meeting them. He is the brother of the groom.

There were glam parts and there were rustic parts, both of which are no surprise when two artists put on a wedding. Because Eddie lives in his own house on the property, Julie sits with him watching Mash most mornings during which time they made this garland. Although he is doing as well as can be expected, there is no getting around the fact that he's lost the love of his life after 65 years of marriage, give or take a year.

A clearing in the woods, complete with a wedding arch made by John and Harry, was the spot for the ceremony. 

Meanwhile guests were mingling...

as well as singing.

All of the folks above are involved with the Campbell Folk School and the man pictured in front is the owner of a popular restaurant in town named The Crown. Bruce just had a birthday yesterday and Matt gave him a gift card to there, so we will be enjoying that in the near future. While talking with him, it turns out he grew up just up the street from our home! 

I cannot imagine what the Michigan family was thinking about the charming wedding festivities, but I have a suspicion they thought it was a special and unique time.

Both Julie and Harry are potters and there was an abundance of their creations put to use, including the tea light holders that were meant to be taken home by the guests.

Flowers from a local flower farm were everywhere. Stick with me folks because the wedding day has arrived! In fact, after we see the mother of the groom, and maybe her sister, we will head to that special place in the woods.

Let the bubbles lead the way...

Here comes the groom and Mom.

I did not envy her in her heels! 

Once the groomsmen arrived at the altar they unrolled a burlap runner for the bride who looked lovely on the arm of her mother, Jamie.

I was not in a great position to take photos, so I relied on the kindness of strangers.

Following a delicious meal that included a roasted pig (a first for me ever seeing),

mostly it was the ladies, and isn't that always the way, who hit the dance floor!

The cake ceremony was simple and beautiful and it was then that I realized the bride looked so much like Taylor Swift, a fact that apparently she is not fond of hearing. Seriously though!

Next up her sister is getting married here in June! 

Arew you tired yet? 

We were most definitely tired, so much so that while yesterday was Bruce's 73rd birthday, it was completely low key with an early bedtime. Did I say he turned 73? And I'm not far behind? 

I will close with this sweet photo of Eddie and Bruce. Julie asked if I would take photos and did I ever love that question. 

We were so thrilled to be included in a remembrance and a celebration. 

your friend,

Gail

Thursday, May 14, 2026

Flowers in Every Room!

It's Wednesday afternoon so already I am a day late posting my thoughts and photographs in a space we call Camera Crazy. For nearly two decades I've been doing so and it still makes me so happy to both take photographs and write about the beauty we see. I hope it brings you a modicum of joy when you read it and seriously, who doesn't love seeing the beautiful world we live in? Prior to sitting down to write I was fertilizing our plants, both indoors and out. The garden is coming along nicely and as I have mentioned before, we are eating a lot of salad these days. And while the vegetables are pretty, the star of our property as I type are the peonies.

In fact there are so many that I ran out of vases and we had to stop by the thrift store to buy another after pickleball today.

Actually the star of the inside of the house right now is this beautiful bouquet that Michelle and David sent me for Mother's Day.

Mostly blue and white, it is a stunner with lilies that have opened and are competing with the peonies for filling the air with fragrance.

After church we joined David and D'Anna at Lakeside Inn in Nantahala where the food was yummy and the view is seriously, unreal. I looked at the photo and thought, if anyone else took this I would be tempted to think it was fake or overly edited, but you know me, what you see is what you get! 

We did good with our boys. While that sounds like I am bragging, I'm simply stating the facts because when all four of your sons contact you before noon on Mother's Day, you have done something right! 😀 I will say that it would have been my sister Carol's birthday and for some reason it really got to me this year, although it has been a long time now since I wrote this remembrance of her. I cannot really read it because it chokes me up, but you can if you click on the link. She was 18 months younger than me and was I also ever thinking of my mom who became pregnant again nine months after I was born. I've said it many times, our mother was difficult but we survived and in some ways, maybe we are stronger for it.

Back to happier topics....

Bruce finally took this out of the bluebird box and you might wonder, why?

Isn't it so beautiful and amazing? He found it like this about two months ago and because it is so perfectly clean I was sure it was new, however, no bluebirds have taken up residence, so we are cleaning house and hoping for a late clutch.

Mr. Bruce has been working hard on making a lovely frame for the new oil painting that will take pride of place in our home. Here he is talking with the artist.

It is interesting that in our Orlando home most of the art would be considered modern, but for this house, the blue painting above looks beautiful. I will show you when he has finished the frame. 

Speaking of the fireplace....oh my word what an experience we had last week and no, there was no disaster but it was interesting to say the least. Since we bought this house Bruce has been dead-set on having someone help us have a working fireplace. In our case, a company from Waynesville, NC said they have done it many times so we had them drive the 85 miles over to inspect the fireplace and tell us what they could do. It was raining like crazy that day, but the fellows kept everything tidy and kept covering their shoes which looked like a pain to me so I told them don't bother and they said no way!

See that debris rushing down into the bucket? You did not want to see it up close I will tell you that much! Who knows how long it has been since someone looked up there and cleaned it out, but by the number of buckets worth of nests of any number of critters, it had been a while. They were terrific and after returning to Waynesville, sent an estimate of how they can put in a box with gas etc. Complicated and what we consider, expensive, we will be going there next week to see the inserts in person. Wish us luck!

Another day I tagged along while Bruce visited a nursery of sorts for plants for the memorial garden at church. While he talked, after receiving permission to roam around with my camera, what fun I had seeing a new environment.

Don't you just love those little buttercups?  Me too. Out in an area called Upper Peachtree, mostly it is rural and what that usually means around here is abandoned something. In this case it was a house that had both sliders open for what I later learned were years.

A messy and overgrown spot punctuated by these beautiful peonies that were going to waste, 

until I asked the lady in the shop if she wanted them for her florist business that was part of the space? No, but you can have them if you want them and you already have seen the evidence of my affirmative answer. One funny thing was that she had mentioned a snake had been on the road which is not funny at all, but thankfully, even though the borrowed scissors dropped out of my hand into that mass of flowers, no snake was detected! It was my lucky day! 

Any day I see cows grazing is a lucky day too.

I talked about the Spring Fling but never showed you any of it so now is your chance! For the first time ever, the new stage was put to use! Part of Laura's legacy with the town.

After nearly two years of disruption in town, the project is nearly at an end, however, new roadwork remains to be done and that will begin next week. In the meantime, everything is looking very good indeed. The festival featured some artisans at their work including this blacksmith, 

woodworkers, and weavers.

She asked me about recent bird sightings because I met her as one of the counters of Chimney Swifts, and goes on the bird walks as well.

Just when you thought you would be seeing birds in every post, they are mostly becoming hard to see because of the lushness of the foliage. This little Eastern Phoebe though made it easy to spot her!

Sorry for the bird insert; back to the fun at the festival where there were all kinds of musicians showcased.

Pictured with our mayor, Tim Radford, the winners of "Murphy Takes the Mic", the singing competition I mentioned. 

It must have been last Tuesday that we stopped into Fairy Cross and found friends. 
It was just like old times and great fun. We went across the street for dinner with George and Tammy who were leaving in the morning to head to New Hampshire.

We have met some very interesting folks since moving here and this couple is but one of them.

I did not win the contest. The moment I saw how high they placed my entry I knew I was sunk. Either that or the judges don't like birds or appreciate how hard it is to get good photos of them. 

No way can you appreciate tiny drops of snow on his little head and puffy body to ward off the cold! 

My bluebird photo was also in a weird spot, but maybe this one would have done the trick? Hard to get two species in one shot.

I want that worm, said baby bluebird to his momma!

Here's something interesting, or at least it is to me. My bale of hay has taken on some friends.

I discovered these weird mushrooms when I went to grab more hay to add to what I already have around the potatoes which are growing like mad above ground! Hopefully tubers are forming below.

Isn't this fun? Every day I am amazed and thrilled with this process.

As to the flowers in every room, well that is very exciting indeed.

your friend,

Gail

Remebrance and Celebration